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Hi 🖐 a girl who’s growing and learning

[txtdrimedia @txtdrimedia]

detik-detik purbaya dapat telpon pemecatan dari istana ketika lagi rapat di DPD

moment tsb terekam dalam siaran langsung

[Jacob Coxon @hilbertspaess]

I resigned from Anthropic today. I spent the last three years doing pretraining research at both OpenAI and Anthropic. Neither company is acting responsibly. They are racing straight to self-improving superintelligence and gambling with our lives. More thoughts below.

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece YOU, as their fans should know better about this. You know how it feels—for the idols and for the fans—when your idols words get twisted.

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece And by YOUR LOGIC, even tho njs didnt mean any harm to illit (yes, i know that), illit still get hate cus of njs words right?

SAME LIKE YOU! YOU TOO twisting the situation, twisting his words! You did the exact same thing like those people who twisted njs words!

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece And by YOUR LOGIC, even tho njs didnt mean any harm to illit (yes, i know that), illit still get hate cus of njs words right?

SAME LIKE YOU! YOU TOO twisting the situation, twisting his words! You did the exact same thing like those people who twisted njs words!

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece (4) Check your facts: Niki NEVER said what you claimed. His comment was addressed to the crowd in general—not a single individual. If it were just one person trying to get noticed, he wouldn't have brought it up! Open your eyes! Use your logic!

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece (3) By your logic, if idol speaks up & fans react toxically, the idol is to blame. But neither Niki or njs could have predicted that expressing their feelings would lead to people being targeted online. THAT IS THE POINT. Idols cant predict/control how people online will react.

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece (2) their feelings and set boundaries, which they have every right to do as human beings!!

Please check the actual facts before spreading false claims to justify sending hate to an idol who knew nothing about the online harassment! Hold the actual bullies accountable!!

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece Could you reply in English? Auto-trans often distort the meaning & cause even more misunderstandings.

​You are completely missing the point! This isn't about comparing their specific words or situations—it’s about the right to speak up. Both Ni-ki and NJS simply expressed--

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece Bro 😭 wtf you talking about? yes ofc i know they are 2 different situation,

i am talking about "idols who speak up" both Niki & njs have the right to speak up & no need to be held accountable cus of their words

See? You guys always not get the point, pls read more carefully

[cha @aurevoirje]

guys, kalian ada yang tau kasus ini?

ada content creator fragrance di tiktok usia 13 tahun namanya Angkasa, meninggal karena tenggelam. dari yang beredar katanya tenggelam karna main sama teman-temannya. tapi teman-temannya ini tuh bungkam semua.

ibunya kemarin klarifikasi dan ceritain kronologi lengkap berdasarkan POV sang ibu. Angkasa diajak main sama temen-temen yang biasa main dan sholat sama dia. waktu Angkasa main, ibunya emang lagi pergi, dan papanya di rumah jaga adiknya yang kecil.

waktu ibunya pulang hampir maghrib, Angkasa belum sampai rumah juga. ternyata, hp, sepeda, dan uang jajan yang dikasih ibunya sebelum ibunya pergi masih ada di rumah. ibunya ngecek hpnya ternyata ada chat dari temennya ngajak main tadi siang. tapi waktu ibunya tanya ke temennya itu Angkasa kemana, temennya bilang “gatau”.

sampe malem ibunya nyari ke temen-temennya angkasa tapi gaada yg tau. sampe akhirnya ada satu anak yang jujur ke orang tuanya, kalau angkasa tenggelam di kali cisadane. dan itu posisinya udah malem. kenapa baru bilang? karena mereka semua sepakat untuk bungkam dan gamau cerita. kejadiannya ini kalau ga salah hari sabtu.

ibunya Angkasa cari bukti cctv sekitar. dan bener pada siang itu Angkasa diajak main sama temen-temennya. ada cctv yang nunjukin ke arah komplek tempat lewat menuju kali tersebut. cctv saat kedatangan mereka berjumlah 8 orang dan saat pulang hanya 7 orang, jelas Angkasa tidak ada. parahnya, barang buktinya dihilangkan. sendal dan baju yang dipake Angkasa saat tenggelam dihilangkan sama temen-temennya.

Angkasa baru ditemukan hari Senin. yang lebih sedih, dari semua orang tua temen-temennya, cuma dua orang yang minta maaf sama ibunya Angkasa. yang lainnya bener-bener datang ke rumah Angkasa seperti tamu.

masalahnya disini, ibunya Angkasa mau cari keadilan. tapi dia tau kalau dia gaada bukti. apalagi kejadian di kali cisadane yang gaada cctv nya. karna mereka ada yang bilang katanya jatuh lah, atau ada yg bilang nolong temennya yang mau tenggelam. apalagi temen-temennya itu di bawah umur semua. dia takut kalau ini dikasuskan, akan banyak menyita waktu dan pasti membutuhkan uang yang banyak. ibunya Angkasa udah ikhlas, tapi namanya seorang ibu pasti sakit hati banget. kenapa teman temannya bisa sejahat itu? kalaupun memang tenggelam dari sore harusnya bilang aja jangan disembunyikan.

liat video klarifikasinya aja guys aku nangis sesenggukan soalnya🥲

tiktok ibunya @/dewisatyanegara88

may Angkaya rest in peace🥀

[K @enhaonly01]

❌ he talked about the flowers
✅ he never mentioned them at all

❌ he did the live directly after that concert
✅ the live was 4 days later, after a different concert date. In fact 3 concerts have passed

❌ what he said made her a target
✅ he never mention anyone specific, everything was very generic and countless idols have expressed similar sentiments.

If you have any human decency at all, stop using a tragedy to further your hate agenda that you’ve been carrying for years. He’s been a victim of your cyberbuIIying since 14 years old. Constantly twisting and making up lies about his words and actions and misaligning his character.

Just like that poor girl who you thought your words wouldn’t hurt, behind the name plate of a group, he is just a human with feelings who experiences grief and sadness like anyone else. You never know when you’ll drive someone to the edge, and you’re slashing word daggers at someone who may already be having a hard time.

It’s easy and convenient to blame a fandom or idol, but cyberbuIIying is a much broader issue across society, and it’s evident even right now since many people from other fandoms who don’t even have the facts right are all chiming in to say the worse about someone they don’t even know. It’s hypocrisy at its peak to preach about cyberbuIIying while engaging in cyberbuIIying.

Mental health is a complicated and sensitive topic, and it’s one I wish everyone would take more seriously. Idols, fans, or anyone - Get help and seek help if you find yourself with unhealthy thoughts. Have compassion and empathy for others, but also have compassion for yourself.

Don’t rely on any one person for your happiness. That is too much of a burden to place on anyone. They don’t live in your shoes 24/7. No one can save anyone at every moment. I hope that everyone can learn to love themselves more. If you really love someone, the greatest gift you can give to your loved ones is to treat yourself with love because then they don’t need to worry.

Please, treat your heart with kindness and protect it fiercely. Even if you feel all alone in the moment sometimes, you matter so much to someone. So please hold on. Light will come to find you in the dark, just as you are the light to someone else’s darknesses. You are loved more than you know.

[scarlett @firafinds]

@Arden_0148 @e_nniex @soheep1ece Yes i understand to not babying idols, i also hope the company making move, change and statement. The sad part is, look at who i replied, you people not focus on the accident but more focus on sending death threat and hatred toward the wrong person & spread lies

[𝑒𝑙𝑦𝑟𝑎 @elyradream]

i was born to love this kind of weather

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece (2) -but to put things in perspective using your own logic: shouldn't njs also be mindful of 'how much weight their words carry' when their comments resulted in severe hate toward illit?

​As additional context, many fans hadn't even heard of Mina until this unfortunate tragedy💔

[scarlett @firafinds]

@e_nniex @soheep1ece Genuinely asking... if they were holding a concert at the time, how would Niki even know what was going on in the online fandom space? Do you really believe idols keep track of every fan war or internet drama happening within their fandom?

​I'm not bringing up NJS out of malice-

[aether @bluewdrift]

your relationship with discipline changes so much when you shift doing things from shame to love. from ‘i have to clean’ to realizing i deserve to have a clean home. from ‘i need to work out’ to i deserve to have a healthy body. you deserve to have the best from yourself.

[m @mxbjwe]

I love religious people who are just so sweet and unproblematic, who makes dua for you, spend time in zikr and with Quran & who advices you with respect then mind their own business, I WANT TO BE LIKE YOU

[kat @kikimvra]

Debunking yalls argument

Alot of people i saw were saying that nk did the live RIGHT AFTER the concert which was not even true, yall are trying to paint nk as the bad guy just for engagement. The flower incident happened in TACOMA, july 26. When ni-ki went live it was during OAKLAND day 2, JULY 30 2026, 4 DAYS APART.
So i suggest yall do some research before spreading misinfo cuz i promise you it was never nk fault but the fandom's fault.