First Session

Helping Canadians find the right therapist since 2019.

[Grace Walker @graceongrid]

Talked to a counsellor!

ps. If you live in Canada and you’re looking for a therapist/counsellor, I had a great experience finding someone through https://t.co/PuGpucUUeU. You can watch intro videos for providers and book an intro call directly.

[Rob Pintwala @RPintwala]

If you build the courage and urgency to start therapy for the first time, a therapist who’s not a fit can sadly mean an abrupt ending even before the work has begun.

This is why I started @firstsessionmh

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

@meltemkuran @RPintwala Thanks for sharing!

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

We’re 5 years old 🎂

[Rob Pintwala @RPintwala]

The “finding a therapist” process is broken. And stuck in the 90s.

In 2018, my wife quit therapy before it even started. Instead of help, she got a sales pitch from a clinic intake coordinator. After weeks of building the courage to reach out, she felt empty, misunderstood, and alone.

She was frustrated and upset. I was too. I knew millions of people experienced the same outcome. Finding a therapist in 2018 felt like trying to find a date by randomly picking names in a phone book.

Making the decision to seek help is tough; the process of finding that help shouldn’t be tougher. If you’re looking for a “client-centered” therapist, there are thousands to choose from, but getting a sense of who they are is another story.

Booking a session often means submitting an online form and waiting. When will you hear back? Sometimes never. If you do, it’s often a “sorry, my practice is full” message. Back to square one…

Even if you schedule a therapist, the next step is usually a “free” phone consultation. But after the admin talk, you might have only a few minutes to see if it’s a fit. Sometimes, the call isn’t even with the therapist.

The problem is clear: the process of finding help is broken.

In 2019, I launched @firstsessionmh to solve it. I bought a camera, emailed 100 therapists, and interviewed 10 of them. 🎥

I thought videos could humanize the experience and help folks gauge compatibility before booking. I made 3-minute YouTube videos for each therapist, put them on a webpage, and crossed my fingers. 🤞

This week, First Session turns 5. 🎂

After 5 years, 12,000 sessions, and 1000s of conversations with therapists, I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on what we’ve learned, the impact we’ve made, and the work ahead of us.

Here’s what we’ve learned and what’s next for First Session:

The Right Fit, the First Time: Switching therapists is hard. Building trust and sharing personal thoughts is taxing. Constantly switching often leads to clients abandoning therapy altogether. Finding the right fit sooner is invaluable.

Connection Over Convenience: Quick fixes never work. Genuine connection between therapist and patient ensures commitment and consistency. We optimize for that connection.

Relatability Builds Trust: Many therapists use dense jargon. The solution? Keep it simple and speak like a human. Relatability allows for better dialogue, connection, and trust.

Agency and Choice: Having an algorithm pick a therapist is convenient but costs an important step in long-term results. We equip folks with the tools to make informed decisions confidently.

Friction Slows Progress: We mandate easier booking, simpler billing, and quicker communication. Less admin friction means more commitment, stronger connection, and steadier progress.

What’s Next?

We’re focusing on helping every therapy seeker find the right fit, removing friction from the process, and building the best platform for the best therapists.

Many seekers bring unintended baggage from past experiences. We’re building a new search engine to account for these experiences. It’s an important step, and the first of many to come.

Transparency around insurance coverage and billing is our focus. We want seekers to feel qualified and informed during their therapy journey.

Therapists should focus on helping people, not admin work. We’re building tools to support them in doing what they do best.

If the adage is true in startups, that an overnight success takes 10 years, I'm hopeful that we're halfway there.

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

Dropping our new episodes here on @X

[Rob Pintwala @RPintwala]

“There are no winners in war”

My late grandfather, a wounded WWII veteran stated this in his memoir.

As news of war and suffering takes over once again, I want to share a timely conversation with Christopher Brown @UnshakenMe, a wounded US Marine veteran who spent time on the ground in Iraq and Afghanistan.

Like many veterans, Chris' traumatic war experience made it difficult to reintegrate into society when he returned home.

However, after some alarming wake up calls, Chris took healing his trauma into his own hands. After years of therapy, he himself became a therapist specializing in helping others heal and process trauma.

He started out working with EMDR, a trama focused therapy modality, but when Chris repeatedly heard about veterans healing their traumas through psychedelic experiences, he started paying attention.

Now, Chris is an advocate for the safe and effective use of psychedelic therapy through proper preparation and integration, and runs his own private practice in Washington State.

Watch the full episode below, or search "Actualize" by @firstsessionmh on your favorite podcast app.

[Rob Pintwala @RPintwala]

I recently sat down with @KellyHrudey on @firstsessionmh's podcast to discuss mental health inside and outside the game of hockey.

Kelly shares his experiences dealing with anxiety, panic, and OCD.

His main advice: reach out for help as soon as you consider it.

Full episode:

[Rob Pintwala @RPintwala]

Needing inspiration to get out of the rat race and find deeper meaning in your life?

Check out @cluesdotlife.

This clip is of Andy on @firstsessionmh's Actualize Podcast.

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

Episode 6 live

[Rob Pintwala @RPintwala]

I had the pleasure of interviewing @cluesdotlife where we discussed the process of deprogramming himself from an achievement-focused identity.

Andy shared profound insights on how detaching from the relentless pursuit of success can lead to personal growth and fulfillment.

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

Latest Actualize podcast episode out now with @AlexAuerbachPhD

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

Episode 1 of Actualize is live!

[Rob Pintwala @RPintwala]

Episode #1 of Actualize Podcast is live.

@KFosterYardley and I had the pleasure of interviewing @skstock.

I've said it before, but Sarah is a complete badass.

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

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[First Session @firstsessionmh]

🚨🚨 New therapist alert https://t.co/5WJx4O93qe

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

@ShannonSevigny 👀👀

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

@MichaelFulwiler ♥️♥️♥️

[Michael Fulwiler @MichaelFulwiler]

Regular reminder to sign up for @firstsessionmh if you're a therapist in Canada.

[CSI Toronto @csiTO]

Do you have experience with looking for a therapist?

CSI Member @firstsessionmh is an online therapist directory committed to making the therapist-search process as easy as possible. You can support them by filling out this anonymous 2-minute survey: https://t.co/UOwRJ4Ux9s

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

🏋️‍♂️💪

[Bryan Espiritu @byBryanEspiritu]

3 Things:
• Therapy is like going to the gym.
• A lot of people go to the gym.
• Not everyone puts in that work.

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

Some thoughts from our founder

[Rob Pintwala @RPintwala]

I’ve run a self-funded therapy directory for over 3 years.

Here are my thoughts on VCs and D2C mental heath companies.

Very short thread 👇

[First Session @firstsessionmh]

When you step into a therapy session, know that it's a safe space for you to talk about anything and everything.

#validation #selfcare #selfworth #selflove #therapy #counselling #safespace