One thing I’ve realized about life, nothing happens before it’s time. You can be in such a bad place now and in two years be a millionaire, do NOT sleep on the power of you and keep going.
I’m at the calmest point in my life right now. Ion trip bout nothin. I just be chilling, getting my life together, vibing w myself, and learning to be there for me
Okkkkk, we got hyper-independence. Not allowing others to be there for you sometimes means you aren’t used to having a healthy support system. This makes it hard to trust others & yourself. So you only depend on you. 🤷🏽♀️
Avoidance. OMG AVOIDANCE. Avoiding people, places, things, thoughts, literally everything. It’s a way of you attempting to control your reality so it can feel safe. It’s really keeping your ability to tolerate emotions/triggers low, unfortunately.
I dnt know who told y’all that healing was neat, clean & positive. But it’s simply not true. Healing can be messy & angry, bitter & loud! Healing is whatever you need it to be & sometimes that’s damn mad.
Aries give it to you raw & uncut. We can be TOO transparent sometimes & we have to learn that some people don’t deserve to know us like that ♈️