@Theholisticpsyc Sometimes boundaries are just defensive castles and building mature emotional connection is stand in for slow ghosting.
Which is still OK. A choice.
Sometines seeing red flags is a red flag. World is messy in that way. And those who tell how you could fix yourself are +broke.
so many people stay in a relationship even when their partner is clearly unable to meet their needs, but end up being resentful towards them.
they tolerate being not treated right, but would still stay together for the potential that their partner would change someday. +
No commitment. No stress. One day we’ll both wake up and realize we’re playing with fire, we’ll watch each other slowly burn until one of us decides to finally walk away. Till then I’ll enjoy this fleeting moment.