Rahul

MLE @ Booking | ex SWE @ Microsoft Research | Ex SAP

[Rahul @fixiedante]

Obligation:

“I have to do this because I am bound by an expectation, rule, promise, or duty.”

Responsibility:

“I recognize that this is mine to take care of, and I choose to act accordingly.”

[Rahul @fixiedante]

what a time to be alive, being able to learn and enjoy learning. LLMs are such a powerful tool

[Rahul @fixiedante]

you need to find your stupid.
we all are stupid.

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tragedy is when two kindered spirits meet but part ways bec of diff circumstances, histories and expreience of their physical manifestation.
Tragedies are common btw :)

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you must always protect your own baseline energy first

[Rahul @fixiedante]

experience → reflection → creation → contribution → experience → reflection → creation

[Rahul @fixiedante]

humans can be so strong i met someone starting life again at 55

[Rahul @fixiedante]

sad thing someone craves sagety in love but bec of past traumas feel unsafe when someone makes them feels safe...

[Rahul @fixiedante]

Old times: men hunting in scarcity, women choosing in abundance provided by the man. modern world has shattered these strict roles. Today true partnership requires mutual hunting and mutual gathering

[Rahul @fixiedante]

To love deeply is to give someone the power to shatter you and to trust that they won't. When they leave, the pain is the price we pay for the depth of the connection we dared to experience

[Rahul @fixiedante]

intense pain is an unavoidable part of loving someone/something deeply. love of something is proportional to knowing how much they lack it

[Rahul @fixiedante]

always remember humans are brilliant yet they are not perfect

[Rahul @fixiedante]

Forgive her for not having the capacity to build that stronger future with you. She acted out of her own limitations, exhaustion, and human boundaries. Letting go of the expectation that she should have had more patience will instantly lower the emotional pressure inside you.

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No one is by law forced to do the right thing and law only prevents someone from doing the wrong thing that everyone agrees is the wrong thing

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One thing i learnt from the breakup we looked at and wanted the same thing, but just different experience and expectations of it. Just a pure tragedy to be so close and yet far...

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You can't reliably make another person feel something

You can only create conditions and increase the probablity

[Rahul @fixiedante]

Instead of chasing women treat your mom with a nice meal

[Rahul @fixiedante]

An eye for an eye turns the world blind… love is a necessary but not sufficient…
Hold contradictory beliefs at same time, faith over fear…

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Nostalgia is a bitch but once you know how to hold it can be very sweet as well

[Rahul @fixiedante]

@arpit_bhayani Bec tech have a barrier to entry which are coding interviews. people are not excited about solving problems that won’t happen in real life, it’s just what needs to be done for interviews.