@sixmisses6@ThatPink_One i am also a survivor, ultimately itโs just up to interpretation i guess. as for fleaing near the butt, imo i donโt think itโs sexual, a lot of suits (like mine) have specific areas where the fur is long enough to put a flea and a lot of that is around the tail.
i have never seen one person complain about getting flead, who is that sensitive lmfao. and why are we forcing the end of one of the most genuine, whimsical bits our fandom has? if you donโt like the flea just throw it away ๐๐
@sixmisses6@ThatPink_One iโve noticed that too i donโt think thatโs right at all, i can see it from both sides and i wanna figure out a way to continue fleaing people while respecting boundaries. my main issue is with the people who were equating this stuff with SA and trauma which is ridiculous
i want to clarify from earlier that i get it when it comes to potential property damage, i came off rude because i was upset at what was going on with my friend, and i apologize for that. i just think its a difficult situation overall because i do get where you are coming from but the surprise is the fun part of getting flead. i do think having a handler present to give consent would be the best possible way to fix this issue, not straight up banning it
thats the interesting question because there are a lot of people who dont mind, i think its the majority of people dont mind. how do you find that balance between verban consent and spontaneous whimsy. like if you are fullsuiting a handler could be there to watch over you and prevent that sort of thing if you dont want it