One of my mom in law has spent all her money taking her son to different pastor for healing, he should be 35 if not close to 40 now and she’s still looking for a miracle.
@Bigdebs222@RedWhinee They accuse d parents of having used them for money ritual.
The way my tummy hurt the day I heard a close relative refer to kids with autism as imbeciles ehn.
They hide the kids indoors or they ignorantly take them to different prayer houses,starving them in the name of fasting
Last week, a lady made a video about solving kidnapping issues in Nigeria and used the Amber alert in Canada as example
Guess what?
I got an Amber alert on my phone today, instagram to be specific
It’s actually such a non issue if I don’t cook and we choose to order food. Emphasis on “we” it’s always a joint decision. It has never been a problem and I cook sometimes too. My husband is a really great cook so he does cook sometimes. Just do what works for your marriage. ❤️
If it is guy to guy, he will understand and give his guy that moment and he will source for another alternative...
But girl comes with pride, because she is squatting with you and you are tired from work... To keep your friendship smooth, source for another means, your friend will never forget the gesture, and appreciate your later... Peace ✌🏼
“We need to pray, You can’t say the President and our arm£d forces are not working, they’re working. They might have sent security agents to the forest and something will just cover their eyes and won’t allow them see the t£rrorist, that’s where prayers come in”
- Gospel singer Adeyinka Alaseyori speaks on the issue of k!dnapp£d children
As a survivor of kidnapping and banditry, I can tell you that these criminals believe that no matter how much they take from you, you will eventually work and earn it back after your release.
Let me use myself as an example. After my family paid the ₦15 million ransom they demanded, along with other items worth over ₦600,000, they still weren't satisfied. They continued demanding more money and eventually asked for ₦55 million. They even told my mother to sell her house and car to raise the money.
Because my family rented a vehicle to deliver the ransom and other requested items, the kidnappers assumed we owned the car and were wealthy. They kept insisting that we sell all our properties and hand over the proceeds to them.
Omo, it was a terrible ordeal. The fear, pressure, and emotional torture were overwhelming. Watching my family struggle to meet their endless demands was heartbreaking.
One painful reality is that they often target ordinary and struggling people like us because we are easier to capture than the elites, who usually have better security and protection.
This is why we cannot continue to stay silent. Kidnapping and banditry have destroyed countless lives, families, and dreams across Nigeria. We need to raise our voices, stand together as a nation, and demand urgent action against insecurity.
Today it may be someone else's family. Tomorrow it could be yours. Enough is enough. 💔🇳🇬🙏🏽
For the first time in years I did normal nails with gel polish, not the powder and heavy and hurting filing. Short and cute, na me and this woman for utako mkt as long as I am living in Abuja.
First off, can we all agree she had an easy labour?
Secondly, for those that attend Pastor Bolji Idowu's church, is it all his pregnant church members in labour that he prays for on a video call like this?
I hangout with a friend on Saturday and he was with his friends, one married with two kids. This guy said “anytime my wife leave me with the kids I dey carry them go meet my mama, na when my wife go don close dey come house I dey go carry the children” see the stress no be here.
I’ve been married for five years, and my wife does most of the cooking and cleaning. I hardly do those things.
Why? Because she cooks three types of meals on the weekend that last from Monday to Friday.
She only does laundry on weekends. She only cleans on weekends.
We also do our shopping only on weekends.
I had to help create these routines for her because she kept complaining about the “mental load” crap.
Women create a lot of this mental load for themselves and then complain that motherhood is hard. No, you made motherhood hard on yourselves.
She doesn’t have to deep-clean the floor late at night. She can do it tomorrow.
She doesn’t have to do laundry late at night either. Laundry can even be done on the weekend.
She doesn’t have to wash the dishes immediately; they can wait until tomorrow.
“Around 7pm, me and my friend Emmanuel, who is a phone charger, arrived at her lodge. We noticed nobody was around. We went straight to her room and asked her for s€x, but she refused. When we started forcing her, she injured my face with her nails. We later overpowered her, and r@p£d her. I have s€x with her twice while my friend make three times with her, I later att@ck€d her with a wooden object while my friend also stabbed her with a kn!f£.”
—Old vulcanizer narrates how they r@p£d and k!ll£d a nursing student, Chinwendu Achumba, in Imo State on 21 May, 2026.