Every day on this website people say they are 23 or 29 or 31 or 26 and is their life over are they going to die alone are they cooked etc etc. My grandparents met and had my mom in their 40s. People reinvent their entire lives every day. Do whatever you want whenever you want
when in a relationship understand that you were both raised differently, which means you love differently, react differently & communicate differently, the important part is that you both respect eachothers differences & try to understand where one another is coming from.
The older I get, the more I realize:
Momentum is everything. One good day creates another. One workout leads to better eating. One hard conversation opens ten easy ones. One small win builds confidence for bigger ones. Get the ball rolling. Physics handles the rest.
The biggest ick, an emotionally avoidant person with no accountability, no real empathy, and a masters degree in victimhood. They have a way of behaving like they’re deep, like they feel everything but look closer, you realise you’re the only one doing the emotional labour.
this old lady just said to me “growth is realizing that someone’s inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth” and i think y’all need to engrave this into your soul.
Imagine expecting Halle Berry, the first Black Actress to earn $20m for a movie, The #1 most desirable woman in the world for decades, the first black woman to win an Oscar, to stay home to cook and clean. Men and audacity.
gaza has reached level 5 starvation which means its irreversible even if food becomes available again. their bodies are gonna be permanently damaged. let that sink in.
SZA responds to Nicki Minaj:
“Nicki . You absolutely know my music and what I contribute cause you’ve asked for features twice to no response . In addition to rapping my lyrics on feeling myself “Cooking up the bass looking like a kilo”? Lol ur having a moment ..im not sure why but be blessed.”
Most ppl don't realise this, you struggle with no contact bc the body grieves routine before it grieves a person. So you aren't crying over them just the version of you that was shaped by their patterns, silences & inconsistencies. Let me explain
so you're telling me the new superman film is earnest, well written, full of romance while staying faithful to the source material, all while being critical of american imperialism AND zionism?!
james gunn, you've earned my money.
being financially comfortable is enough for me. i don’t have to be the richest, i just want to always be able to eat what i want, go where i want, pay my bills on time and give my kids a great life