my favorite part of healing is when i stop lying to myself and start accepting people for who they were to me instead of whatever potential i projected onto them
So many people stil don't understand that their partner's request for change is not asking them to change who they are, but to modify the PATTERNS that are hurting the RELATIONSHIP..
I love a man that genuinely fw me all day, every day like checking in, calling, texting, facetime, pulling up… I can handle my own, but it’s something special about a man who makes you feel wanted & thought about ♡︎