One thing I am grateful for is the fact that I see MEN as MEN.
Not as performers of any role. Just as humans who will reveal themselves to you in due time.
When you see all of them as leaders, protectors, providers, etc., you will be disappointed.
Just see them as MEN - mere mortals. And leave them to decide what other role they desire to perform in your life.
A lot of you never held any leadership role prior to marriage. Not your offices, not in associations you belong to, not even headboy of your primary school, so marriage is the one place you finally get to be the local champion leader you’ve been having wet dreams about.
Pathetic
“A married woman is a diety. You do not sleep with a diety.”
But you fit beat diety.
You fit cheat on diety.
You go carry infection from outside come give diety .
Shishi u no dey give diety.
Chike spices we thank u ooooooo
What moral compass does VDM have to put his dirty mouth and castigate Chike?, was he not giving married men hands jobs etc for money ?,the rubbish of him saying Chike needs to go do cleansing is just too absurd cos how many cleansing did he go for before being asked by fake activism?.
The ones who have obviously done worse things behind the camera are the ones acting like saint when others sins goes public, he should focus who his activism and leave chike alone, he’s still being fingered in “Justice crack” continued detentions and should focus on that accusation.
A so called self righteous man with ridiculous past.
Teach your boy child “ Men are not Polygamous in Nature
Teach your boy child that “a Man not cheating isn’t Simp but rare gem
Teach him not to seek Validation from DAMAGED Men on social media
Teach Your boy child how to handle Rejections
Teach your Boy child Consents & No means No
Teach your Boy the beauty of staying faithful with one woman
Teach your boy child respect towards women
Teach Your boy child the gravity of their actions
Lastly :Be a Good examples to your boy child because you can tell them all this things but if you’re not leading by examples then you’re a joker.
Happy INTERNATIONAL BOY CHILD DAY 🩷.
In all of this, I just want to thank women that fought tooth and nail for women’s rights to education, employment, ownership and everything we take for granted now. Let all of protect our mental health and peace which ever way we choose 🙏🏾
all i will say is that with the way nigerian women are groomed to center their lives around marriage, be very wary of a twice divorced nigerian man. as per not one but two nigerian women experienced him and said nope? it's better for you to marry lucifer tbh