Flor granado

[Modern Dad @ModernxDad]

When god wants to make you successful he..

[Flor granado @flor_granado]

The problem is that they don’t know how to be a man, and that’s why the woman has to solve it because nowadays what she does is complain and pretend that they are the ones who support, protect and take care.

[Jedediah Bila @JedediahBila]

IRONY: Modern women are killing the masculinity they subconsciously crave.

What you need is for him to be a MAN 💯

[Flor granado @flor_granado]

Men today don’t value a good woman

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Bro, how did you mess up with a woman who didn't want anything from you but you?

She wasn't asking for money.
She wasn't demanding expensive gifts.
She wasn't requiring luxury trips.
She wasn't measuring your worth by your wallet.

All she wanted was your time, attention, and loyalty.

And you couldn't even give her that.

She didn't need you to be perfect.
She didn't need you to have it all figured out.
She didn't need you to be rich or famous.
She just needed you to be real with her.

And you fumbled.

She wanted consistency, and you gave her confusion.
She wanted honesty, and you gave her lies.
She wanted loyalty, and you gave her betrayal.
She wanted effort, and you gave her excuses.

Do you know how rare that is?

A woman who loves you for who you are, not what you have?
A woman who's down to build with you from the ground up?
A woman who doesn't care about your bank account?
A woman who just wants you to show up and be present?

That's the easiest relationship to maintain.

No pressure to be something you're not.
No stress about keeping up appearances.
No anxiety about providing material things.
Just genuine love, simple requirements.

And you still messed it up.

You got bored because it was too easy.
You took her for granted because she wasn't demanding.
You thought you could do whatever you wanted because she was loyal.
You assumed she'd always be there no matter how you treated her.

She asked for the bare minimum:

Communication - you went ghost.
Time - you made excuses.
Honesty - you lied.
Respect - you disrespected her.
Loyalty - you entertained other women.

She wasn't even asking you to move mountains.

Just answer the phone when she calls.
Just make time for her in your schedule.
Just tell her the truth.
Just treat her with respect.
Just be faithful.

That's it.

But somehow, that was too much for you.

You chose the streets over someone who chose you.
You chose games over someone who was real with you.
You chose temporary excitement over permanent peace.
You chose everything and everyone except the one who actually mattered.

Now she's gone.

And you're realizing what you lost.
Now you see her value.
Now you understand what you had.
Now you want to fix what you broke.

But it's too late.

She gave you chance after chance.
She forgave you time after time.
She stayed when she should have left.
She loved you through your worst.

And you still didn't get it right.

Some other man is going to get the upgraded version of her.

The version that learned from loving you.
The version that's healed and stronger.
The version that knows exactly what she won't tolerate.
The version that requires what you refused to give.

And he'll do everything you didn't do.

He'll appreciate what you took for granted.
He'll value what you treated like nothing.
He'll protect what you damaged.
He'll love her the way you should have.

And you'll be sitting there wondering what happened.

How you lost the easiest thing you ever had.
How you ruined the best relationship you could've asked for.
How you let go of someone who wanted nothing but your love.

That's on you, bro.

You had a woman who didn't want your money, your status, or your possessions.
She just wanted you.
The real you.

And you couldn't even give her that.

Don't mess up the next one.
If you're lucky enough to find another woman like that, treat her right.

Because women like that don't stay available for long.

[Flor granado @flor_granado]

Or rather impossible but there are men who prefer that it is always the woman.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Men don’t understand that women are reciprocators. She steps after you step. You lead, she follows. How she treats you is a reflection of you. #relationships #dating

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Men don’t understand that women are reciprocators. She steps after you step. You lead, she follows. How she treats you is a reflection of you. #relationships #dating

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

She may forgive a confession but she will NEVER forgive something she had to find out on her own after being gaslit into believing she was crazy to suspect it.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

A man who can’t answer your questions without getting angry or defensive is hiding more than just the answer.

[Flor granado @flor_granado]

❤️‍🩹

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

When she detaches, you've lost her forever.

You'll never get the same version of her again.

The woman who loved you unconditionally is gone.

The person who fought for your relationship has left.

The one who made excuses for your behavior has evolved.

The girl who believed your promises has learned better.

She's learned her lesson.

She's seen your true character.

She's experienced your real priorities.

She's witnessed your actual values.

She's understood your genuine intentions.

Once she emotionally checks out, there's no going back.

Once she stops caring, she doesn't start again.

Once she removes her heart from the situation, it stays removed.

Once she chooses herself, she keeps choosing herself.

You can't un-teach someone what you taught them about your character.

You can't un-show someone what you showed them about your priorities.

You can't un-prove what you proved about your values.

Don't mistake her kindness for weakness.

Don't confuse her love with stupidity.

Don't assume her patience means she'll wait forever.

She gave you her best and you showed her your worst.

She offered you her heart and you broke it repeatedly.

She's done learning the same lesson over and over.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Let them go to find someone else. Let them lose you, let them miss the kind of heart they'll never find again.

Because you deserve someone who is all in and completely sure about you, without second thoughts. Don't be afraid of losing someone who didn't value you.

What you should be afraid of is staying with someone who makes you forget your value. Remember THAT.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Men and women don't need the same thing in a relationship. Men want freedom without feeling controlled. Women want commitment without feeling forgotten.

Men feel loved when they're respected. Women feel loved when they're understood. One wants peace, the other wants presence.

And when they stop giving each other what they need, they both feel unloved for different reasons.The key is to learn each other's language, not just speak your own.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

If she kept choosing you at the cost of herself, don’t be surprised when she chooses herself at the cost of you.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Lying to a woman who can read energy is wild behavior.

[Jedediah Bila @JedediahBila]

Can a woman be "friends" with her ex?! Here are my rules...

[Flor granado @flor_granado]

There is a generation of princesses who want the relationship to be maintained only by the woman.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Intentional men don't believe women should do the chasing.

A man who wants you will pursue you.
He'll make his intentions clear.
He'll ask you out, not hint around.
He'll call you, not just text when it's convenient.
He'll plan dates, not leave everything up to you.
He'll invest time, effort, and energy into getting to know you.

You won't have to wonder where you stand.
You won't have to decode mixed signals.
You won't have to initiate every conversation.
You won't have to beg for his attention.
You won't have to convince him you're worth choosing.

An intentional man knows what he wants, and he goes after it.

He doesn't play games or test your interest.
He doesn't keep you guessing to protect his ego.
He doesn't make you compete for his attention.
He doesn't breadcrumb you with just enough to keep you around.

He respects you too much to waste your time.
He values you too much to leave you confused.
He's confident enough to risk rejection.
He's mature enough to communicate clearly.

If you're always the one reaching out, he's not that interested.
If you're always the one making plans, he's not that invested.
If you're always the one initiating, he's not that serious.
If you're doing all the chasing, you're doing all the work.

And a relationship where only one person is trying isn't a relationship.

Stop chasing men who should be chasing you.
Stop giving your energy to someone who won't match it.
Stop settling for lukewarm effort when you deserve intentional pursuit.

The right man won't make you chase him.
He'll make sure you never have to question his interest.
He'll show up consistently, pursue you intentionally, and love you deliberately.

You deserve to be chosen with certainty, not chased with uncertainty.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

The right man will see you and love you the way you deserve.

He won't overlook your value.
He won't take you for granted.
He won't treat you like an option.
He won't make you beg for the bare minimum.

The right man will see the effort you put in.

He'll notice when you go out of your way for him.
He'll appreciate the little things you do.
He'll recognize your sacrifices.
He'll never make you feel like your love is wasted.

The right man will see your heart.

He'll see the kindness you show even when you're hurting.
He'll see the strength it takes to be soft in a hard world.
He'll see the love you pour into everyone around you.
He'll protect that beautiful heart, not exploit it.

The right man will see your worth when others didn't.

He'll see what your ex was too blind to appreciate.
He'll treasure what others took for granted.
He'll honor what others disrespected.
He'll fight for what others walked away from.

And he won't just see you, he'll love you intentionally.

He'll love you with consistency, not just intensity.
He'll love you in actions, not just words.
He'll love you through challenges, not just celebration.
He'll love you on purpose, every single day.

The right man will love you the way you deserve.

With respect, not just passion.
With patience, not just promises.
With loyalty, not just chemistry.
With commitment, not just convenience.

He'll love you without making you shrink.
He'll love you without conditions or ultimatums.
He'll love you without games or manipulation.
He'll love you the way love is supposed to feel.

You won't have to convince him of your worth.
You won't have to compete for his attention.
You won't have to change who you are to keep him.
You won't have to question if his love is real.

The right man will make you feel seen in a world where you've felt invisible.

He'll notice the details others missed.
He'll celebrate the qualities others criticized.
He'll admire the things others made you feel insecure about.
He'll love the real you, not the version you perform to be.

You deserve to be seen fully and loved completely.

Not just for what you do, but for who you are.
Not just in the beginning, but consistently.
Not just when it's easy, but especially when it's hard.

The right man is out there.
And when he finds you, he'll know exactly how blessed he is.
He'll see you.
He'll love you.
And he'll never make you question either.

[Flor granado @flor_granado]

Incredible but true!

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Your role as a man is to make sure she never needs another man.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

Your role as a man is to make sure she never needs another man.

[Matthew Coast @MatthewCoast]

She's a strong woman, but deep down, she wants someone STRONGER. A man who will value her, appreciate her, and love her. A man who will protect her and make her a PRIORITY. She's independent, but she wants someone she can GROW with.