making your bed, finding a signature scent, long walks, body scrubs, diy mani/pedis, learning to sew, having sleepovers with fun themes, intentional naps, getting massages, trying new restaurants and doing reviews, starting a blog about your feelings, people watching, book clubs
The biggest skill you can develop is the ability to reset fast. Bad conversation? Move on. Bad day? Start fresh tomorrow. Missed workout? Hit it the next day. Poor decision? Learn and adjust. You can’t control what happens to you, but you control how long you let it affect you.
Even in close friendships, learn to mind your own business. If they’re not sharing something with you, it’s likely because they don’t want you to know or they’re just not ready yet. You’re not entitled to know everything happening in their life at all times.
“They kissed like they were chasing the air in each other’s lungs. It was the kind of love that refused to fade, a feeling etched so deeply that even time could never erase it. To them, it was the only way love was ever meant to be.”