Nothing will ruin a relationship for me faster than watching my partner show up for other people in ways they don’t show up for me. You have the capacity, just not for us? No thanks.
Stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time & energy.
normalize leaving people to avoid empathy burnout. yes, i love you, but i am tired of having to ask you to consider me, and i am tired of you not seeing where you went wrong.
i thought, the longer i stay, the more you’d realize how much i love you, but it only made your ego worse towards me, making it easier for you to disrespect me.