And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; and patience, experience; and experience, hope: and hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us. Romans 5:3
A lot of people are preparing for pregnancy and creating a family and are really evaluating the type of partner they are choosing to do so with.
Is this person a good person overall? Have they done the work to heal or actively doing so?
Would they be a good parent?
Would they be a good life long partner?
Do they share the same values and morals?
Are they mature?
Are they solid or in an out?
Are they good providers?
When choosing a partner you are choosing a pattern or you are choosing evolution for yourself and what comes from you (family, children, purpose etc.)
Don’t waste your time.
Get real with yourself.