"I don't hate trans people.. I just need them to:
- not call out transphobia
- not have any representation in media
- not talk about trans rights
- not fight for trans kids
- not come out as trans
- not mention that they are trans
- not transition
- unconditionally support me"
second meetup was a D&D night with a tgirl DM and a transparent that wanted to learn how to play. the parent spent the entire night misgendering us and couldn't wait for the next one [spoiler: there was not a next one]
the first time i tried to join a trans group in my state i showed up to a discord game night where it was just me and a yaoi fetishist with neo pronouns and they talked about themselves and their cosplay for like four hours
the first time i tried to join a trans group in my state i showed up to a discord game night where it was just me and a yaoi fetishist with neo pronouns and they talked about themselves and their cosplay for like four hours
made sure I would be as isolated as possible and have no community or support. Spent my 20s being too gay for the straights and too straight for the gays. Spending my 30s being too trans for the cis and too cis for the trans.