Romance as a thing for me always feels somewhat threatening, with super high stakes. If it involves me even at a fictional level it can really wind up my anxiety more than I want it.
The intense feelings of not being enough and pulling away from people you care about (because you feel unworthy and don't want to be hurt) are things I also struggle with and cause me to occasionally act out.
The Catra character esp in season five is damn special to me.
I don't think theres been a character that showed as much of really messy coping/self hating behavior that I've accumulated over time.
I am close with my family and extremely lucky that coming out as trans was extremely positive. I feel pretty certainly that I rely on them significantly for moral support.
Feel like I should visible and proactive when it comes to asian, queer and trans issues. Have a lot of imposter-y feeling that make me feel like I just don't have any authority to talk about those things.