If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
A lot of MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.
Ages 25–30 are really difficult. You’re dealing with a shrinking friend group, aging parents, cleaning up the financial mess from your early 20s, your career, your health. You’ve gotta find time to heal your mind. You just have to.
Maturing is realizing when you wake up randomly at 3am or 4am you’re supposed to pray. Over your home, over your children. Then sit and listen to what God tells you to do next
staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. respect is what you need. time is what you need. reassurance is what you need. happiness is what you need. a bestfriend is what you need
maturing is realizing you cannot get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them.. even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be serious matter to them. genuine consideration is the key