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RN~RM 🩺||Salt|| 📚||
God over everything 🌹

[Deelovestoread_ @Deelovestoread_]

Born and raised by Nora Roberts, Sidney Sheldon, Danielle Steel, Mills and Booms historical romance, Harlequin romance and Goosebumps

[Jade Osiberu @jadeosiberu]

I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.

Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.

If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.

[Bella Hadidn’t @SkinwithLolami]

My delayed processing can be so funny sometimes. I’ll just wake up one random day, mentally tally up all your nonsense, and block you.

[Oyinkansola @oyinkanbadejo]

Math increases your problem-solving skills like crazy

[Somie @ssomie_]

Nigeria has betrayed her young. Tufia.

[Hon Henry Shield @HonShield]

An Oil Producing Nation should not be discussing Kuli-kuli and Akara as a means of survival.

[YabaLeftOnline @yabaleftonline]

From the desk of actor Kunle Remi.

[Andrea @DreaNicole_]

Jesus

[NaNa🌼✨ @sil_vee_yah]

One of my favorite names of God is El Roi “the God who sees me”🥹.

[Whemïmor @hy_wemmy]

The fact that I survived seasons where my income wasn’t enough but my needs were still met will always be proof that God came through for me.

[¥ @laylanaiim]

You cannot humble me… my confidence was not built from compliments.

[Big_Cee🫶 @Ceh_Lyn]

Day 32💔
Nobody deserves to live this way
Your reposts/retweets are needed because they can’t be forgotten so soon

[Ahead!😇😌 @ChiLaHotie]

Looking back, that “strict” parenting might be the reason you still have values, morals, and common sense.

[Lisakhanya @lee_Duruwe_]

The Polygamist on Netflix is not a show about a man with many women. It’s a show about what happens to women when they organise their entire lives around one undeserving man.

[shunnii🫦 @ashantisearra]

sometimes we have to thank god for what he didn’t allow to go our way

[Princess A @cessadelove1]

Tomorrow is Monday. I walk into this new week with peace, no stress, no drama, no setbacks. Just back-to-back blessings and good news.

[Dodo @dodobabs_]

I am disgusted by this tweet.

[Cuppy @cuppymusic]

Try to find joy in every day, not because life is always good, but because God is 🤍

[y4yi🇦🇷 @yxyiagain]

30 days inside bush.

Tinubu you’re a failure.

[Rene🧚🫧 @sheisafairyyy]

I will never understand a "free trial" needing my debit card information.