To the Brothers that reminded me of my Divorce Trauma, Below is your Response in full. I have your time Now.🤣🤣🤣🤣
Go and ask about Khadeejah of Sunnah and self esteem of Nija FM UK. then you will know that no be today at all. I am in my full element now, Bring it on.
Divorce Does Not Equal Damaged Goods
I will say this clearly and unapologetically yet again 🙄. You insult me, I block you straight otherwise you shall get bigger insult.
Being a single mother or divorcee does not make a woman damaged.
The idea that a woman becomes less worthy of love, respect, or companionship after divorce is not just wrong, it’s dangerous.
It silences women in harmful marriages and relationships
It forces them to stay for the sake of image.
And it breeds a culture of quiet suffering dressed up as “virtue.”
Islam does not shame divorced women.
Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW) married divorcees and widows.
Our faith honours those who walk away from harm and choose peace.
But culture?
Culture has often been less forgiving.
A woman who chooses herself is called selfish.
A woman who protects her children is called bitter.
A woman who heals out loud is told she talks too much.
And if she dares to love again?
They say, “She’s desperate.” or simply Ashawo
Hnmmm, May the Lord heal and forgive you
My ladies, hear me loud and very clear
Divorce is not a badge of shame.
It’s a part of life that can happen to anyone.
Even the most prayerful,
Even the most patient,
Even the “perfect couple.” And the married but living singles too. Yes the openly pretentious ones
It is better to walk away with dignity than to die slowly in silence.
So to every single mother and divorcee
You are not less,
You are not secondhand, third hand or whatever name the society choose to call you
What you call yourself is the most powerful and important.
You are not disqualified from love , happiness, peace, companionship, passion , s-ex , fun or joy again .
You are a full woman,
You are still whole,
And you are worthy of peace, protection, and partnership just as you are and as much as any single person out there
Carry yourself with grace 👑, yes you are a queen 👸 and absolutely 💯 cut yourself some slack. After all our Lord is that of first, 2nd, 3rd and numerous chances and He is not finished with you. Don't allow the society tell you otherwise.
From one woman to another, love ❤️will find you again or you simply find it !
To cap it all Be a Single Mother with shit loads of money 🤑 🤑 🤑 🤑 💰 💰, That scares them the most.
Never stop growing or developing, Never give them the benefit of the last laugh 🤣 🤣
#FreshChaptersWithRonke
#DivorcedNotDefeated
#HealingWithFaith
#CulturalAwareness
#MuslimWomenDeservePeace
#SingleMumStrong
One of my biggest dreams is to build a company that creates opportunities for women who started later than expected.
Internships and graduate trainee programs for women in their late 20s and 30s. Remote jobs for women in their 40s and 50s.