Wifey For Lifey Group

Wife of 18 years💍 & Traditional Marriage Advocate! #betheprize #wifeyforlifeygroup

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

Welcome to the #wifeyforlifeygroup page! This community is for positive conversations about healthy relationships and marriage. I’m facilitating respectful and enriching discussions for and with women who are wives or desire to be married. Join us! https://t.co/cQNYxTazdF

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

A man will NEVER wiggle on his non-negotiables to be with you🤷🏽‍♀️, so you shouldn't either. Don't waste your time. The problem is society is worried about all the wrong things that cannot sustain a long-term marriage, like values & morals.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

It’s ok for Cardi not to want a Coach bag. I wouldn’t want her cheating husband either🤷🏽‍♀️. An expensive bag will not save you from being unloved, violated, & mistreated. Focus on God, character, & morals. Life is so much better that way.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

It's ok to discuss beauty, style, & weight topics online in general discussions or addressing commentary. But to analyze how a woman looks to “you” unless you are being targeted is questionable as a supposed, refined, Christian woman. We are attracted to men, not women🤷🏽‍♀️!

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

Anyone who tells you that they have given up on love, men, & marriage is TOXIC if you want the opposite. RUN🏃🏽‍♀️!

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

Old women praising a “40-year old” woman for choosing baby mama hood with her boyfriend at her age shows the lack of morals & dysfunction of society. You deserve a man who COMMITS to you first, stability, then family (if you desire that). They want you to end up like them🥴.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

You cannot trick or finesse a traditional man with your beauty, body, or sex. They stay true to their values—period! Once they are on to your game it's over. They are above-average men & I'm a witness to that.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

👉Men: You shouldn't worry about a man’s income or earning potential for marriage.

👉Women: You shouldn't worry about a woman’s attractiveness when selecting a wife. It's the heart & character that matters right?

👉Me: Both are true realities of life. Don't be deceived.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

I agree with Eboni K. Williams on one point. She is a smart, wealthy, & ambitious woman who understands that casually dating or staying in relationships for “YEARS” with men who do not want to marry (when YOU do) is a waste of time when you are in the prime years of womanhood.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

As a phenotypical black woman, I'm not interested in certain looks. When I show my husband popular makeup styles or fashions he is not impressed. Most women dress for each other, not men. The provocativeness is about “look at my body” because jealousy is appealing to the wicked.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

He wanted me to be free to rest & enjoy my creative outlets❤️.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

What a wife brings to the table:

Whatever the man you are madly in love with desires. Don't get me confused with other pages. I have a daily housekeeper & lots of free time. My husband is currently enjoying my presence & adoration. That's what I bring to the table at the moment.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

We uphold our morals, values, & biblical principles. That is something we all can share, but my husband’s goal is to give me a life of ease as long as he can. I can't relate to feeling like I have a JOB as a #stayathomewife because he works VERY hard to provide a good life for us

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

I bring a peaceful home & lots of love🫶. Every Godly man does not desire or expect the same things in HIS home. Learn your husband! Every marriage is unique & will go through different seasons, so don't compare. I just focus on my life & appreciate what I have.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

It doesn't mean that EVERY man needs to find us gorgeous or attractive at all. You only need that ONE where that spark unites mutually. It's about analyzing why some people admire you & playing up your best assets even if it's just your quirky style or the way you smile.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

Men aren't attracted to our confidence or ambition. That is what attracts women. Men are attracted to our physical beauty. Don't let people lie to you. We also desire attraction. You will not be admired for other things until you get over that first step. Don't be delusional.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

Your sweet personality, kindness, wholesome nature, & God-fearing qualities will not even be considered or admired until he feels that attraction, period. Anything else is trickery, deception, or ulterior motives. Every pot has a lid😄.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

Some women need to STOP lying on the Bible. My father is a minister & I grew up in the church. They DID NOT teach us that sex was bad. No matter how much of a “good girl” we are that will not stop fornicating, unless you want to. Sin is fun, for awhile 🤷🏽‍♀️, until it isn't.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

Separated = Still married

Work out your first failure before you move on to the next & have some self-respect. You cannot be divorced in your mind..lol. It doesn't work that way. Some people are truly disgusting. I would NEVER trust someone who violates their vows.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

Some women are very mad that Khloe K. allows Tristan to be in her home & around the kids🤣. They say he is not around his other kids—not her issue. She laid up with him unmarried. He did HER wrong, but they still need a father. It's not her fault that other baby daddies leave🤷🏽‍♀️.

[Wifey For Lifey Group @for_lifey]

Being “good” has nothing to do with who gets married or not, despite what ignorant women say. None of us are good! It's about morals, character, & standards. Our beliefs have nothing to do with “pleasing” a man. We are choosing to honor our values. Water seeks its own level.