The Bible warns us not to look back at old friendships or relationships that God has delivered us from. Lot's wife did and became stuck in time. My prayer is that when you're tempted to return to the past, the spirit reminds you there's so much more ahead of you!
I cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. You are your biggest advocate. No one else can read your mind or feel what you feel.
People lack accountability, then say, “You could've talked to me” No, I couldn't. You don't listen, You deflect. You twist everything into an attack and then play victim. Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting. And honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to win an argument, not to understand.
The best decision I ever made was to be quiet. I have nothing to prove. I'm not convincing anyone that i'm a great person. I'm not fighting for anyone to see my worth. Whatever you do is on you. Just hope you don't regret it. As for me, I'm moving forward, free and peace.
Zero tolerance for poor communication this year. Idc how difficult the conversation is to have, let’s have it. If you can’t have it, there is no need for us to converse.