every man ive ever met (platonic & romantic) has turned out to be incredibly disappointing. this is not an exaggeration. no matter how sweet, or progressive or well rounded they seem as first, they always eventually do something so incredibly disappointing that i cannot get over
It’s “If he beats you leave” never “if you beat her we will beat you too, we will stop being friends with you, we will ostracize you, you will lose your job, we cannot be friends with men who beat women”
All the advice for the victim, nothing for the abuser.
I don’t do well with people that think you have to be rude & brutal in order to be honest. There’s a softer way to say almost anything if you care enough.
"Men suffer in silence."
No, they don't. They make the people around them suffer instead.
They offload their pain onto the women closest to them. Every time.
please stop making everything digital i want to keep saving the movie ticket, the concert ticket, a handwritten note, a photo, the invitation of about 15 & all those little things in a shoebox to open when im 80