@LostBlueJay tbh, you have to just ignore them and keep doing you! unfortunately, we can't expect people to have the same sensibilities as us or even attempt the golden rule, esp here. i'm sorry you even have to deal with it!
I think the purest form of love is just wanting someone to notice life with you. "taste this. look at that. hear this song." again and again. until you can't imagine noticing life without them.