Growing up is realizing them creating an international covert operations organization to oppose the horrible things adults wanted to do to then was 100% justified.
Teach your kids about
Marcus Garvey
Malcolm X
Assata shakur
Patrice Lumumba
Dr. Frances Cress Welsing
Nat Turner
Harriet Tubman
Huey P Newton
Thomas Sankara
Toussaint louverture
Fred Hampton
khalid Muhammad
Muhammad Ali.
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who's super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.