β arenβt they married alreay? β
abantu bazenza ngathi abasazi ukuthi abantu bayalobola ba signβe and save for white/traditional weddings for a later stage.
Niyathanda ukuzβfaintisa ne?
Cry during the degree. Cry after the degree. Cry for the job. Cry after the job. Cry for residency. Cry after the residency.
But, just keep studying. Keep studying. While you keep crying. Thanks.
i actually think "surface-level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride-or-die. some friends are for the gym. some friends are for church. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. the deep conversations are for the 2-3 people closest to you.
I genuinely feel like we are not meant to consume this much information about everythinggg so rapidly daily and itβs messing with peopleβs moods, personalities, health & general way of life.