also i’ve realised that you should take maximum one or two things completely, insanely seriously and be lighthearted about everything else, let things roll off your back
usually hate being in a mans close friend cus what about me said i wanted to see what u are hiding from the world. anyways one time i was in there and the guy went on 5 dates in one day and captured everything. all the women looked so happy. he even helped one put a bed together