@femmepitslicker I do not call myself a masc but still dress masculine, those norms still get imposed. You have to communicate but sometimes even after I do I still get strange comments
@kataraluvr@cubikrubes Specifically heteronormative gender roles, it is up to the person of course how they want to be treated but being masc presenting does automatically mean they want to be seen as masculine/treated that way in a relationship
@Anatchayagirl I 100% agree but this happens with girl group stans as well quite frequently. As a whole kpop fans are way to parasocial about the sexualities of idols
@RAC10161988@dancingrosins My eyes? Do you mean brain? I feel like kpop fans love to just mention gayness to idols any chance they can and itโs a little uncomfortable, these idols could start thinking weโre weird. Not saying itโs true for this instance but fans do this excessively
@adelkazz@murtummy I know not all femmeโs donโt exclusively date butches but butch/femme dynamics in recent years feel like itโs a fandom or something. Ik im talking out my ass sorry just irritates me how glorified gender roles are, nothing against OP but i do think itโs a fetish