I don’t have anything to give anybody right now. I’m usually the one checking on everybody, loving on my people and making time but right now I need all of me for me. This year took a lot out of me and I’m just trying to find my way back to myself!
One thing about me, when i'm going through something I fall back. I don't be around people acting like everything cool when it's not. I'd rather get to myself back right, reset, and come back normal. I'm not putting my problems on nobody, and I'm not forcing conversation just to look okay. If I get quiet, it's me tryna heal.
Not even an apology can undo how certain people made me feel. Some damage ain't about words, it's about patterns, disrespect, and seeing people for who they really are.
I’m not matching no ngga energy no more, I’m matching my OWN 🤏🏾 you act funny, I get distant. You move weird, I move on. I’m choosing ME every time, go play with somebody who tolerate that bs‼️💯
We have spent years being told it is “just a period problem” while our skin, our weight, our mood, and our energy were all falling apart. Today, the medical world finally admitted you were right.
PCOS is now PMOS.
never wanted friends bad to the point where i know for a fact they talk about me, etc. and I still go along with it. yall normalize being fake so bad to the point where it’s the new real 😂 I don’t need them kind of people around me..
I’m not perfect, and I’ll never act like I am. I’ve made mistakes, handled things wrong, and had moments I could’ve moved better. But one thing about me, my intentions are always pure. I don’t go around trying to use people, play with them, or do anyone wrong. I may not always get everything right, but my heart is always genuine.
I don’t got the energy to keep telling grown people what they did wrong. You knew what you was doing, and you knew it would change how I see you. I’m not going back and forth trying to make you understand something you already knew. You got it. Be blessed and have a great life without me in it.
I ain’t never claimed to be innocent. 😭 I’ll tell you exactly where I was wrong. I’ll apologize when I mean it. I’ll own my attitude, my mouth, my decisions. What I WON’T do is let somebody paint me like I woke up and randomly chose violence. 😂 Every version of me somebody hates was created by an experience they conveniently leave out. I’m not proud of every reaction… but I know exactly what triggered it. That’s the difference.
When you get through the hardest part of your life by yourself, you quit being afraid of losing ppl. You already found out how it feels 2have nobody show up&still keep going. After that, you don’t hold on 2ppl the same anymore. If somebody wants 2leave, it don’t bother u at all.
I be noticing who only come around when they need something. They don't check on me, don't ask how I'm doing, don't make no effort until it benefit them. I used to overlook it because that's just how I am with people. Now I pay attention the first time. If I only matter when you need me, you don't need access to me at all.
Your ex an ex for a reason. Stop letting them pop back up and act like nothing happened, just to waste your time again. Every time you let it slide, you teaching them they can keep coming back whenever they feel like it. Then one day they gone be the one done with you and you gone be sitting there like you didn’t give chance after chance. Stop letting people take years from you. Get focused, run your money up, and move on.
To the nggas who ruined the peace of a good woman 💔 while acting like you did nothing wrong… remember this 👇🏽 The tables always turn 🔄. The pain you caused doesn’t disappear… it circles back 🎯 and it hits harder. Karma is a BTCH ⚖️🔥. Every lie 🤥. Every excuse 🗣️. Every time you played the victim in situations YOU created 🎭. Keep faking who you are 🎭. Keep pretending you were misunderstood 🙃. Keep acting innocent 😇. Eventually… you’ll feel exactly what you put out 💯.