@hetfag2 omg if you're still active on here let's just interact on here, there's a reason I was always a tl > dms person
I have reached a state of nirVana (Im vana) and am desensitized to this hitlerian app. Im only here for you queenie
I genuinely don’t understand how ppl don’t get this. To be “provided for” means you are, in many ways, at the mercy of someone else. They have a certain amount of control and authority over you. The relationship btwn a provider and a beneficiary is always a transactional one.
This is just traditionalist abuse apologia, the 'soft power' they want to pretend exists in hierarchical relationships is just a myth--the man in question can humor you up until he decides not to do so any longer, your 'control' is entirely dependent upon his good will.
right wingers: "actually true in a way. Because obviously genghis khan was bad in some ways (we don't even think that but this horseshoe devils advocate theory is an opportunity for Woman-Bad), those bad parts are feminine. Womanly tendency towards destruction, entropy & whatnot"