male partners who are very masc out in public, but in bed are willing to wear a bra and panties for you. also loving the way his boner looks in those lace panties you bought him >>>>>
as someone who uses they / them pronouns, we have to understand that english is not everyone's first language and that sometimes people just generally don't know. not everything is done with malice, it's not hard to be kind to others! people make mistakes and that's okay <3