The problem is y'all don't want the women who actually want you. Y'all will ignore shawty with the purple afro and septum ring who go to Dragon Con and will literally suck dick with you to chase the "baddies" you KNOW don't fuck wit you. Gotta go where your love at, big dawg 🤷🏾♂️
men are so jealous of women’s ability to monetize sex. i know for a fact if they could sell themselves, they would. the only reason most of them can’t is because women aren’t the primary customers. men are.
I think people are having less casual sex bc we are living in a low trust society. Sex has increasingly become a power grab instead of a consensual exchange. People are vulnerable but then are being exploited in new ways or stalked or treated so bad they retreat into a shell.
My ideal relationship is something that starts out with casual sex, we hang out and then decide that we want more. I think that’s what a lot of women are looking for. Unfortunately men don’t play fair so you just have to accept being ghosted or just not have casual sex