so you’ve been watching the bartender dancing while she makes drinks all night and now she’s clocked out and in the mood to party… what’s your opening line?
Financial Domination is a hot fun kink where people (typically) experience sexual pleasure from sending money & gifts to beautiful Dominant women. It falls under the larger umbrella of Femdom kinks & fetishes.
Findom is not bargaining with or faking sends to a Domme. It is not being forced or coerced into sending money. It is not tributing for a session. It is handing over money for the thrill of the power exchange. For the acknowledgement of superiority. For deepening your submission to women and for making reparations for the patriarchy.
It can be a small ritual, a daily prayer: a coffee send. It can be sporadic four digit drains. It can be reimbursements or covering bills or buying shoes or sending a percentage of your paycheck, or all of the above - because it feels good, it feels right. What should you expect in return? Satisfaction from serving in the way that is most useful in this world - with your money. Joy, in knowing you made your Domme smile. Pleasure, because it’s hot to know that you are responsible for arousing an incredibly sexy woman who is more than likely beyond your reach.
If you’re not sending for the joy of it, then you are not a Finsub. That’s okay, you have choices. If you are confident in your skills as a submissive, there are lifestyle Dommes whom you form a personal relationship of some capacity with and serve for free or in exchange for services rendered.
If you cannot find a lifestyle Domme online or locally, there are also paid Femdom dynamics available to you.
I, and many other fantastically capable Dommes, are open to paid Femdom dynamics.
Findom is My favorite and though I do enjoy many other kinks - I will only engage with what I want to, when I want to, for a rate I’m comfortable with. What I will not do is cater to your whims for pocket change. I do not need you, nor do I want to debase Myself for your money. That is not how I express Dominance, that is not how I receive submission.
So, dear submissive: if you want to be in My world, in any capacity, you’ll compensate Me fairly. If you want to receive My full attention and the glory of My brain and My years of experience, you will be generous with your time, your money, your body. If you want to be Mine, be someone I am proud to call Mine.
All I’m reading is “I hate the fees” but what you’re not realizing is you’re paying the fees so I get to keep my 100%. When yall send to LF or OF etc, they take 20% or more.
So if you send $100, we get $80 and still have to pay taxes on that. Throne pushes the % onto you as the buyer instead of us as the creator. So you may send $100, get charged 10-20% to make it $120 but we get to keep the $100.
So yall are technically complaining that you have to cover our cut, which isn’t very kind of you.
Someone is ALWAYS going to have to pay the fees, I’d rather it be you.
trans day of visibility is more than acknowledging your friends, your peers, its about honoring them, paying them, and fighting for their rights everyday (and maybe punching a transphobe)
I know some SWers are not going to like this take but I’m glad porn hub is getting shut down in a lot of states and countries… disgusting company owned by horrible men who knowingly profited off countless videos of revenge porn, CSAM, real rape and assaults, and voyeurism.
unless you’re sending me 3-digit sends PER DAY at minimum, you do not get full-time access to me. we have lives. this is our JOB. it genuinely upsets me when a client gets your messaging contact for one situation and then takes it as okay to message 24/7 w/o permission.
if you deactivate or ghost your domme, don’t come back acting like nothing happened. we’re not your fuckin pen pals. we’re your superiors, here to be worshipped. re-earn access or stfu.
“you’re just using me for my money.”
yes, and you *specifically* sought Me out and are *choosing* to engage with Me to fulfill *your* desires, projections, and fantasies.
you’re delusional if you believe that a Woman’s presence and power should be freely accessible to you.
Heads up everyone @ManyVids just deleted my entire account without talking to me once. I cannot find a single email. I have no DMs from them. Just woke up today and it's gone. Get your money out and GET OUT! They're taking out SW I just know it.