If you’re always trying to read people’s emotions or wonder if someone is upset with you, you might have an insecure attachment style.
HERE’S WHAT THAT MEANS 🧵:
When we’ve been through childhood trauma, a common coping mechanism is over-explaining.
Here’s what it looks like and how we can find healthier ways to express ourselves...
A THREAD🧵:
@alectrent54 My problem is I got excited when I downloaded bereal and added everyyyyyyone. And then later realized I don’t care what every person I’ve ever known is doing. So I barely look at other peoples posts now. I just look at my own memories on there😅
Dad: *looking at the window* who’s car is that parked out there !!!
Me: idk dad…
Dad: *starts putting shoes on*
Me: what’re u doing ?
Dad: I’m gonna go see who’s car that is out there !!!!!!
my mom & sister just turned to me and said “we were just saying how great it is… how *admirable* it is, that *you* give gifts. ya know, considering your income.” …..