Relationships take commitment and hindi lang siya tungkol sa yes or no. It’s about being present for the other person.
Pero ‘wag ka rin masyadong matakot about him getting tired of waiting. If he genuinely cares about you, maiintindihan niya na kailangan mo ng time para makapag-decide nang maayos. At kung hindi siya maghintay, it’s okay lang din, that’s his choice and something beyond your control. What matters is you’re being honest.
Ang importante, wag kang mapressure. Take your time, and if you’re ready, go for it. If hindi pa, respect your own pace. What’s meant to be will always find its way.
I told myself nga before that hopefully by 23, I would have my own house and maybe slowly start to settle down and have my own family because I had wanted to start early. Buttttt I realized I was the only one pressuring myself about that, not even my parents or anyone haha I realized na buhay ay di karera and that we all have different timings and meanings of what success is. I used to think that having your own family means success. There are some who do not have families, kids, or even partners in life, but they are successful in their own way. So right now, i’m just trying to live my life and enjoy what I can as of the moment. What is meant for me is meant for me. What happens, happens. Kung sa bisaya pa, basta buhi mao na ang importaante hahaha