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Was this, was this, all for your sake?

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@TishaTheOAT @burnthelilacs It is not challenging because nearly everyone with narrow views of gender presentation will just view him as his agab. He can dress however he wants to, but its not radical in any way to not transition and dress how youre expected to, and presenting it as such is weird

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@aplantfromvenus @archivesofarch @GothTvKat @melisilawi But its not the societal norm for trans men to be masculine, that's the thing. People can push gender stereotypes on you in that case, and it's still not a widely spread problem. The day trans men are actually,honest to god, forced to be more masculine, then this convo can happen

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@Luintas @FatesLandia @aplantfromvenus @archivesofarch @GothTvKat @melisilawi Therefore they expect people to conform to their agab, meaning trans men are still expected to be feminine

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@aplantfromvenus @archivesofarch @GothTvKat @melisilawi You worded it very poorly though. Framing expectations whithin queer circles (that aren't even universal because still, a ton of queer people want or expect trans men 2 b feminine somewhat) as societal pressure is kind of crazy don't you think

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@aplantfromvenus @archivesofarch @GothTvKat @melisilawi Fym nooo 😭. Have u ever tried dressing in masculine clothes @ age 12 when everyone else expects u to be a little girl? U know how much emphasis people put on ur chest and ur hability to breastfeed when u mention wanting to get top surgery?

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@aplantfromvenus @archivesofarch @GothTvKat @melisilawi No they aren't lmfao. Theyre expected to be feminine, ask around and see how many trans men have felt pressured to perform femininity, not go on hrt, not get any surgeries, etc. Vs how many have been pressured to be more masculine by anyone except a few randoms online

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@inari_shinobiii @Lylenotliar Like deadass a bunch of grown ass people going "because antis are CHILDREN amirite 🤣" mf the person you're replying to was TEN three years ago. They don't stand for nothing they preach

[crusher ♍︎ reading beyond canon @caliginouswaltz]

some people on tiktok make their entire personality one specific phrase or image and its the most annoying thing ever

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@Me0wgii Well there is a whole genre of lesbian animated media that is almost always exclusively poc led

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@tomoparasite Thats unfortunately how fandoms work but also. Genshin fans fault

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@scottiluvs Don't you think commenting this under the post would've been more effective? How is the artist supposed to take feedback and do better if they don't have access to said feedback? Otherwise you could've just made your own, separate post w/o linking it to this specific art

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@mari_pmo Mas os únicos ai que não sao realmente lgbts sao o sasuke e o naruto. Além do mais é meio que mais triste ainda usar arcane e heartstopper como referência de mídia com casais queer incríveis 😭

[tdk @tdkumon]

I HAAAAAATE it when i try to google a word for its definition and then some stupid tv show from 2012 no one cares about pops up

[່͏ ͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ @oorangeugladd]

when you practice something over and over and you actually get better at it

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@fairysong313 Muting this. Did the kpop boy rpf/ LADS porn factory explode jesus christ, don't yall have those to read? Go do that! Ur wasting ur precious fandomite time on a lowly being like me who doesn't understand the sancticity of our poor pissy precious baby ao3 authors!

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@fairysong313 If you can't handle criticism, or like, people having opinions about ur work in general you shouldn't post it on a public platform 😭😭??? That's not bad etiquette, not everything is bad etiquette. It would be if they were rude about it, which they weren't.

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@nicomoon69_ @fairysong313 Its so cute when ao3 users try to be condescending lol but I ain't taking that from another gacha game player. U can't be talking about growing a brain, u don't have one

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@gihunbootyplug @fairysong313 Woah fucking there buddy I can fucking assure you I fucking won't. Because I fucking don't bookmark fucking stuff fucking pubicly, I just think it's fucking dumb to be this fucking sensitive. Fuckkkk

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@camiG1412 @nicomoon69_ @fairysong313 How am I being rude exactly. Also yes I would know because I'm an ao3 author

[🎃 @friedsesameseed]

@nicomoon69_ @fairysong313 Yeah, rating a fanfiction an 8/10, real weirdo behavior right there!