Get a degree, build financial independence, take care of your health, walk away from dysfunctional relationships and dynamics and keep good relationships in your life. That’s it. That’s the advice black girls need. It doesn’t need a social media label or hours of discourse.
I used to know girls were jealous of me so I wanted them to feel good about themselves the way I did but that shit does not work they will hate you even more like btch you got the nerve to actually be a good person 😭🤦🏽♀️
at what age did you guys realize every crush you had was just admiration for someone brave enough to openly embody all the traits you kept hidden out of fear of judgment
turns out, reading voraciously, moving your body, loving people without keeping score, protecting your solitude, chasing nothing but your own growth, and occasionally staying out too late with people who make you laugh until it hurts is not a bad way to build a life.