I know humans are made for connections but I find it interesting how women yearn for seclusion. I don’t even say this negatively. It’s just a natural craving to be up with the night sky but sleep often, and also just unbothered by people
I’ve always liked the phrase “whether you think someone is attractive or not is none of their business.” The actual radical position isn't “noticing” who you think is ugly by any kind of arbitrary standard, but deciding the category doesn't deserve your commentary at all
If I was a horse and you led me to water I’d also wonder why did you bring me here?? Now I must perform for you whole time I’m not even thirsty, I’m not your puppet I drank water at home before you brought me here without asking
They’re not using these cameras to track down rapists, pedophiles and traffickers. They’re not using them to find your missing children. They’re using them to throw women in jail for making choices with their own bodies. Wtf are we doing??
there were words alrdy in place to describe the state of someones connection tht work perfctly fine. u date casually, exclusively, or commit. lovers is an adequate label as well <3
Knowing nothing does wonders for the nervous system. Don’t check your emails. Don’t ask your mom why any of it happened. Mute him on twitter. Ignore the nutrition label. Have notifications off for everything. Remove your eyes, ears, and nerve endings.
As someone with much older friends, you will meet men and women who would be fond of you for no sexual reason whatsoever. They’ll be generous. They’ll buy you gifts. And they’ll want nothing in return.
It’s more common than you think.
let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. let them reintroduce their hobbies, dreams, and soul. familiarity shouldn't be a cage. love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.