“Why do disabled people customize their mobility aids” “why do disabled people have dyed hair” “why do disabled people have septum rings” God forbid people who have no control over their body want a sense of control.
i really do consider people i don't talk to for years still my friend you never have to worry you will have to say something actually disparaging to me to burn the bridge or else you are my friend forever. i don't have much to talk about becaus my boring disabled life so it's ok.