sleeping with men before figuring out your sexuality is wildly different from publicly stating “i’m a lesbian but i’ll jump on a cock when i’m bored lol”
I love being a lesbian who does does not seek men out for sex when im bored. if that makes you feel like im being restrictive i fucking hate you! and if you respond to this trying to pull out every nuanced context in which a lesbian might have sex with a man, you will be blocked.
"you think I'm less of a lesbian because I'm not a gold star? Homophobic"
She is absolutely insane for saying that.
The way she's confusing "WHY are you sleeping with men WHILE calling yourself a lesbian" and lesbians who have been with men prior to realizing their sexuality omg