@JohnHowardRoar1@BoringBiz_ On average, women marry older men. If a 29 year old woman married a 31 year old man, it would show up in the women’s percentage but not the men’s (because the cutoff is married by 30).
18 million Americans are smoking weed 21+ days a month
This is a full blown addiction crisis that even the NYT now says: "It’s Time for America to Admit That It Has a Marijuana Problem"
The man who sleeps nine hours and eats clean and never drinks and exercises daily is the deadest man i know btw. his bloodwork is immaculate and he has nothing to say. the body is a temple and no God showed up. meanwhile the ones who actually see things are running on four hours and cigarettes and something chewing at them from inside that wont let them become vegetables. consciousness is expensive it costs health. you pay with the body. the flame eats the candle thats the deal
This is a dopamine loop, and it’s one of the most powerful ones humans have ever encountered.
Every time you prompt an AI and get a useful result back in seconds, your brain gets a hit. Variable-ratio reinforcement, same mechanism as slot machines, except the reward is real: actual output, actual progress, actual leverage on your ideas.
Traditional work follows a delayed-reward structure. You write code for 6 hours, maybe it compiles, maybe you get feedback in a week. The gap between effort and reward is wide enough that motivation decays constantly.
AI compresses that loop to seconds. Effort → reward → effort → reward. Your prefrontal cortex stays engaged because the next payoff is always one prompt away. This is why people describe it as “fun” when they’re actually working 14-hour days. The subjective experience of effort disappears when reward frequency is high enough.
The “harder than ever” part is real too. When your bottleneck shifts from execution to imagination, you run out of excuses to stop. There’s no “waiting on the build” or “blocked by review.” Every idea you have can be tested immediately, which means your brain never gets a natural stopping point.
People who thrive on this are selecting for a specific neurotype: high novelty-seeking, high conscientiousness, tolerance for rapid context-switching. That’s maybe 10-15% of the population.
The other 85% will experience the same tools as overwhelming, not energizing. And that split is going to define the next decade of who captures value from AI and who gets displaced by it.
If you’re spending more than 2 minutes making a list, STOP.
Take action and finish something.
Lists are seductive, but anything you might forget probably isn’t worthwhile anyways.
“Today is yesterday’s tomorrow.”
- 3 year old (today)
His reflection on language got me reflecting on all the “I’ll do it tomorrow” things that never happened.
Do it TODAY.
Your time is priceless, but so many of us wander or scroll through life as if that means it’s worthless.
It’s worth more than your wildest imaginations, and you need to honor that price that with every decision.
You need to decide how much your time is worth.
True potential- more than you’re currently making. This is your opportunity cost, and it’s accruing every second.