my mom once told me “SPOILING DONT ALWAYS INCLUDE MONEY! it includes time, attention, cooked meals, being there emotionally, physically and mentally! money comes and goes but how you make me feel is forever!” and i felt that.
i saw a girl say “if she has to ask for flowers she doesn't want them anymore” but that really goes for everything wether it be love, attention or appreciation, because it’s no longer coming from you it’s coming from me.