Rape apologists always do this fake “caring about the real victims” act but there are no real victims to them. They make the standard so impossible that everyone qualifies as a liar. It’s like when Islamic courts ask for at least four witnesses to a rape.
You don’t expect gay activists to be outspoken feminist activists and you don’t expect trans activists to be outspoken feminists activists but if a feminist doesn’t be everyone’s activist all the time 24/7 then she’s a bigot. Ok