viola davis said something that people pleasers need to sit with. you can disappoint somebody and still be a good person. you don’t owe everyone a version of yourself that makes them comfortable.
I think people underestimate how tired you can be from just having too much on your mind! Not even physically tired! Just tired of remembering things, handling things, thinking ahead, fixing stuff, making decisions, being needed, tryna stay afloat etc. That's just a lot for real.
you have to fall in love w/ your being in order to activate your luck. love your face, your body, your mind, who you are as a person. love is the energy of acceptance, openness & joy. the more you love yourself & your life, the more your value expands, the luckier you become.