Northern male who loves the idea of being in chastity,once in there is desperate to escape.Seeing stripes on my bum from a hard caning is particularly pleasing.
@HouseOfDouleur Locked in a cage since start of September. My mistress likes to call it Stoptember. Not sure about Locktober yet. Mistress will make the decision tomorrow.
@LalayLottie@AndrewWrestleUk Your first punishment that you received followed by the first caning you gave out...how did it feel changing from sub to dom.
@HouseOfDouleur In my experience the sub can often want or desire more than they are able to take in reality. A good mistress will realise this and not give in. Power or control is not about abusing the sub. Good communication is vital as the sub/dom relationship develops.
@LalayLottie When I see you looking all innocent like this you don't look like someone who would give out a good hard spanking and caning, I guess looks are deceiving.