Fungai Mbofana

I won't always say the right thing but my heart is always in the right place !!!

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@MaDhlomo_ If showing men u have money means paying R85 for Uber, may your type never locate me in the name of Jesus

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

The moment someone benefits from a household repeatedly, the guest argument starts to expire. You can’t claim the privileges of a partner and the responsibilities of a guest at the same time.

[Dostoevsky’s Girl @saoirse_sikhu]

Niwatshate ke lamadoda niwathuthela igrocer when you sleep over. Because uthi makavunywe ngubani when you throw him back into the dating pool???

WHERE have you ever heard of a guest bringing full groceries for a visit?

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@saoirse_sikhu The moment someone benefits from a household repeatedly, the guest argument starts to expire. You can’t claim the privileges of a partner and the responsibilities of a guest at the same time.

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@JackiePhamotse This question assumes men’s mental health exists primarily to be observed by others. Many men have learned that public vulnerability often attracts judgment, dismissal, or weaponization rather than support. Silence isn’t always neglect; sometimes it’s adaptation.

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

This question assumes men’s mental health exists primarily to be observed by others. Many men have learned that public vulnerability often attracts judgment, dismissal, or weaponization rather than support. Silence isn’t always neglect; sometimes it’s adaptation.

[Jackie Phamotse @JackiePhamotse]

So men ignored their own mental health month? Just dead silence. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@mlinah76 If the Uber is R400+ one way, why agree to a date that far away in the first place? The funniest part of this story is that the only person who apparently had agency was the Uber driver. You agreed to the location, booked the ride, showed up, ate the sandwich, my sister please

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@khanyisile_____ @gomomoratele_ I agree with this, date your type. I’ve never dated a woman without her own means of transportation nor a woman who came to spend the weekend empty handed knowing there’s everything in the house. It’s her knowing I want for nothing, that makes her willingly share her resources

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@saints_chango As opposed to what? Saying they’ll happily give it to independent women?

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@Vuyiswavv_ No need to ask, if u have to run to your ex to fill your tank, then you’re not the big girl you think u are! What are you doing with your life that u need fuel on tap to go and see your man, the one u chose unprovoked

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@_shwabade_ It’s not even about that. Going to spend the weekend or just going to see your partner is not just for his benefit! Why not do the bare minimum of paying R85 for an Uber to go and see your man! A relationship u chose to be in!

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@luu016_ So u guys date people who come to spend the weekend at your houses empty handed, sibadala guys please!. Hear me out, she will still find everything she needs at home, but the fact that she’s considerate enough to bring something tells me all I need to know, even if I insist.

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@TrippyLu @Mashishi_B I hate the fact that you’re right 😂😂

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@MissyRobertsxo Men please date your financial type. I don’t remember the last time I paid for someone’s Uber so that they can come and see me. My masculinity remained intact. I don’t remember the last time I dated a woman who came empty handed knowing she’d also find food and drinks at home

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@zalikiwoee Women that I’ve dated as an adult, never once asked for Uber money nor did they ever show up empty handed. There’s a balance and a certain level of resourcefulness, courtesy that some women contribute naturally. Sibadala guys

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@Shwe____ Women that I’ve dated as an adult, never once asked for Uber money nor did they ever show up empty handed. There’s a balance and a certain level of resourcefulness, courtesy that mature women contribute naturally. Hence why men should aspire dating up not down

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@koke_nkwe I don’t do “trust me bro” logic! Social norms influence decisions, but they don’t explain away personal desire, attachment, meaning, or individual choice.

[Fungai Mbofana @funmbofs]

@duduonthedaily Men, date women who have their own resources and are mature enough to use them without feeling like they’re doing a favor and u’ll realize how much of a “non issue” a lot of these things are! The type that are “cultured” enough to never go anywhere empty handed! There are levels