Even if you want to marry a spouse recommended to you, please do not marry the one recommended by a pastor or any religious leader.
Except that religious leader is your parent.
Even at that, you still need to be careful.
Religion can make many people "blind".
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On this advice I will stand till I die...
Never marry a religious person, never.
They are horrible people using religion to cover their wickedness.
Look for a sensible Godly person.
How do you differentiate between a religious person from a Godly person.
A religious person has enemies, and wishes his/her enemies to die.
A Godly person wishes for his/her enemies to repent or change ways.
A religious person goes to church more once a week even when it is raining heavily, insecurity issues or your kid fall sick. Listens to their pastors more than their parents or you.
If you are not in good terms with a religious person, you are a witch or they humiliate you.
The meeew of a cat is sent by the Enemy to a religious person.
Stay far away from them.
So you need to do a self reflection of your time here as a creator.
Are people searching for your older posts just so they can troll you, or are they searching them just so they can learn from you?
I can tell you that I am the latter.
That's why I am still relevant.
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If you've been in a relationship for at least a year, and you cannot post about your girlfriend or boyfriend online and let everyone know that you're in a relationship, both of you are still deceiving yourselves.
Especially if both of you are above 27.
"I like my relationship life private."
But if you marry, you go post about it on the TL.
Why is your marital life not also private?
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