gue suka uncomfortable conversations krn dari situ bisa menilai mana org yg genuinely open to communication n willing to understand DAN mana org yg egonya tinggi defensive merasa every criticism is a personal attack (platonic romantic familial whatever lah)
heavy on this statement. kalau nikahin orang yang bukan selera kita, pas ribut bakal ada tendency to think “gue udh nurunin selera buat ini orang, tapi malah gini”. you will resent your partner for the rest of your life and it will hurts not only your partner, but also yourself