Overthinking has a name in Islam. It's called Waswas - (وسواس). The whispering.
Allah mentioned it in the Quran: "From the evil of the whisperer who withdraws - who whispers in the hearts of mankind." (An-Nas: 4-5).
Talking about what women bring to the table. I think childbirth alone covers half of what a woman should bring to the table. That involves Life and death
One thing I look out for in men is the ability to be emotionally stable when things aren’t going well with them. I admire men like that so much. The calm headed.
Some men lash out and become violent, some withdraw and ghost, some become a different person entirely, once I notice these things. I gradually withdraw.
Naaah, you can’t be the one for me.
For thousands of years, babies slept with their mothers. When they cried, they were attended to. Then two men came along: Dr. Holt and John B. Watson. They said babies should be trained. That babies had to fit the assembly line schedules of their parents. "Newborns must cry to expand their lungs," they claimed. "Simply let them cry it out." And that's how the "cry it out" sleep training method was born. Watson treated babies like experiments. "Never hug or kiss your child," he wrote. "Shake hands with them in the morning." After all, mothers needed rest, to attend to their husbands and households. Watson had four children. Three attempted suicide. One succeeded. And we still follow it today. Because once you convince a mother to ignore her baby's cries, you've broken something primal.