kinda agree, tapi menurutku ... sometimes, we mistaken peace for boredom/losing the spark. di awal hubungan, everything feels exciting karena semuanya masih baru banget untuk kita. but as time goes by, kita mulai terbiasa sama kehadiran mereka di hidup kita (cont.)
A therapist said that sometimes being a loner is a trauma response. You’re so use to people you love not showing up for you or walking away or you may have grown up in a toxic environment. That the only one you could depend on was YOU! So you naturally feel safe when you’re alone
Been there, done that. As someone who feels things deeply, I know how difficult it can be to move forward. It took me years to heal from an ex who left me traumatized, but eventually, I made it through. I hope you find your way to healing, too, Soleil. You deserve that peace.