nonsexual dominance is so important. like being ruined in bed is one thing, but what about having your hair combed, tucked into bed, kissed goodnight and holding hands in public? someone to stand up for you and protect you, call you pet names and shower you with affection.
holding someone accountable is a cruel kind of love. people don’t change because time passes, they change when they’re forced to face what they’ve done and how they treat others. if no one holds them accountable, they’ll never have a reason to become better. they stay stagnant.
all i crave is love and redemption. to be be known. to be worshipped as a god. to be someone’s priority. i want someone to depend on me, to not be able to breathe without me. i want to be someone’s purpose and motivation.